The court can even adjourn proceedings to utilise these alternatives first. Family Mediation is a process of helping resolve disputes regarding issues faced by estranged couples which include arrangements for the children, assets, and finances.
A mediator meets with the couple, identify the issues which they cannot agree on and then assist them to try to arrive at an agreement.
It is possible for you to go through mediation just the both of you without the involvement of advocates. However, it is always recommended for one to have some independent legal counsel before and during mediation. But in some cases, people find it important to have lawyers present during the mediation process to offer additional support.